Public Speaking Skills You Must Have - Part 3
Secrets to Seminar & Speaking
Success: What I Wish I Knew Many, Many Years Ago...
Do Not Lose Control of Your Group!
You've been there before: you're sitting in
the audience attending a seminar or presentation
that you've been looking forward to eagerly.
Maybe you've even paid a decent sum of money
to hear what the presenter has to say on a topic
that's important and interesting to you.
But some audience member keeps interrupting with
long-winded questions, completely ruining the
flow of the presentation and eating up precious
time.
In your head you keep wishing that person would
just shut up, or that the presenter would take
control and stop the constant interruptions.
But no - the situation goes from bad to worse
as others jump on the bandwagon interrupting with
inane, off-topic questions as you get more and
more angry and frustrated.
In the end, the presenter has run out of time
to deliver on what you came to hear and you end
up getting short-changed.
Don't let this happen in your speaking and
seminars.
People have come to hear you speak, not someone
who's trying to hijack your seminar, or tell their
life story, or act like a show-off trying to "steal
the show" from you.
Set the ground rules up front.
Tell your audience how things are going to be.
Tell them that you'll take questions only during
a specified question and answer period, or after
your seminar is over.
In some cases, such as conducting trainings,
it might be appropriate or even necessary to take
questions and allow audience participation during
your presentation.
But if you've promised to deliver on a specific
topic, your audience is expecting you to follow
through so don't disappoint them by allowing anyone
to hijack your presentation.
Keep control of your presentation by setting
the ground rules up front and be prepared to enforce
them if necessary - with a smile, of course!
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