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Training on How to Prevent Stage Fright
People get stage fright and fear of public speaking
confused: stage fright is panic or fear that strikes
suddenly when you're already "on stage".
A great way to cure stage fright quickly is to
prevent it from happening in the first place and
this public speaking training will show you how.
At the core, stage fright is fear of rejection
and fear of being judged harshly.
That takes various forms like being afraid to
make a mistake or fear of not knowing how to handle
a question or fear of tripping over your own feet
and so on. But all of that is really fear of rejection
and fear of being judged harshly.
Doing public speaking or seminars is a terrific
way to promote yourself, generate more business,
and make sales of your product or service but
you'll never do it unless you deal with the problem
of stage fright.
So if stage fright is the panic and fear that
hits people when they're already speaking, what
can be done to prevent it?
There is an easy solution I'm going to share
with you here.
You see, people manage to "create" stage fright
in a number of ways, but a very common way is
to look out over an audience, and feel the eyes
of a bunch of staring strangers burning a hole
in them.
Who wouldn't feel uncomfortable with all those
eyes burning holes in them?
Here's how to prevent stage fright from ever
happening to you: arrive early before your talk,
and make time to walk around and meet some of
the audience members.
Introduce yourself as the speaker and thank them
for coming, ask them some targeted questions about
what they're hoping to hear about.
Be genuinely friendly & curious - it will feel
good to talk to these people. Remember this old
saying: "strangers are just friends you haven't
met yet" - so make some new friends by meeting
some people in your audience.
Then, when you're "on stage", be sure to make
eye contact with 'your new friends" consistently.
And if it's a small group, you may even be able
to meet everyone before you start your talk.
Summary:
By meeting people and being friendly before you
start your talk means these people are not strangers
boring holes in you, they're your new friends.
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