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Emergency Stage
Fright Cure
This public speaking training article will teach
you a deceptively simple technique to cure an
emergency attack of stage fright.
What's an "emergency attack of stage fright"?
That's when you're up in front of people speaking
and suddenly you're hit with fear.
Warning: if you have severe stage fright, this
technique may not be appropriate for you - you
should try stage
fright prevention techniques first or in extreme
cases, seek professional counseling.
This technique is perfect for a sudden attack
of fear because it works with the parasympathetic
portion of your nervous system which is the calming
portion of your nervous system.
You have 2 portions to your nervous system:
1. The Sympathetic Portion - is like the "gas
pedal" and this kicks in when you are under stress.
Your heart beats faster, your breathing becomes
shallow and your system flushes with adrenaline.
In other words, the Sympathetic nervous system
is the stress response.
2. The Parasympathetic Portion - is like the
"brake pedal" and this is active when you're relaxing
on vacation, or enjoying a nice hot relaxing bath.
In other words, the Parasympathetic nervous system
is the relaxation response.
If you have an attack of stage fright, you want
to activate your parasympathetic nervous system
so you can calm down and relax quickly.
If you breathe deeply, you activate the Parasympathetic
nervous system - but deep breathing is not always
easy if you're up in front of people speaking.
Another way to activate your Parasympathetic
nervous system is to defocus your eyes and go
into peripheral vision - this is very easy to
do on stage without anyone knowing you're even
doing it.
This works fast too:
One of my students made a presentation at a very
large and prestigious University. Her biggest
fear was that she'd lose her place in her speech,
and sure enough, someone asked a question which
she answered, but then she completely forgot where
she was! She panicked and went into Sympathetic
nervous system stress response. But, she instantly
defocused her eyes as I trained her, and she became
calm very quickly and remembered right where she
was and continued calmly and confidently with
her presentation.
Don't let the simplicity of this technique blind
you to it's effectiveness because this easy technique
works like a charm.
Bonus Tip:
Practice this technique first: hold your hands
up to either side of your head but keep your eyes
straight forward and practice part of your speech.
Keep your visual attention on your hands in your
peripheral vision as you talk. Get comfortable
with doing this - just a little practice is required
to master the "feeling" of staying in peripheral
vision while speaking. Practice defocusing your
eyes and going into peripheral vision while talking
to friends. Soon it will be easy and second nature
for you.
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