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Stage Fright - How to Cure
it Right Now
If you've already tried traditional methods
to get rid of stage fright and it hasn't worked,
it's time to try more serious public speaking
training techniques.
Stage fright is caused by how you hold representations
in your mind - a fancy way of saying that whether
you know it or not, you're running scary movies
in your mind that create fear.
Using this public speaking training technique
you can conquer stage fright quickly and easily.
One of the most effective public speaking training
techniques you can use to get rid of stage fright
is what I call "The Hero Process", here are the
steps:
1. Identify Your Hero:
Who can you think of that would never have stage
fright, not in a million years? Who can you think
of that could confidently speak to any size audience?
This person may be living or not, real or imaginary,
someone you know personally or not. Important:
pick a Hero that would not have stage fright,
ever.
2. Observe Your Hero:
It doesn't matter if you observe your Hero in
your mind, on a video, or in person. What you're
looking for here is the outward demonstration
of a total lack of stage fright - in other words,
how does their face, their voice and their body
look when they're calm and confidently speaking
to an audience? Make detailed notes about their
face voice and body.
3. Become Your Hero:
Emulate and act like your Hero - stand the way
s/he would stand. Make your face like their face.
Speak the way they would speak. Feel all the feeling
of calm confidence they would feel. Try practicing
parts of your speech being just like your Hero.
4. Rinse Then Repeat:
Go back to being yourself for a minute or so,
then practice being your Hero again.
3 tips that make this method work best:
1. Don't "impersonate" your Hero, just emulate
the qualities they have that make them free from
stage fright.
2. Use 2 spots on the floor that are six-feet
apart; on one spot, you are you. On the other
spot, you transform into your Hero.
3. Try different Heroes: if one doesn't seem
to make a difference in how you feel, try another
and another until you can speak free from stage
fright.
Summary & Bonus Tips:
This is not "fake it until you make it" because
the Hero Process literally rewires neural connections
in your brain to short circuit stage fright and
build new neural connections for calm confidence
about public speaking. Remember - you are emulating,
not imitating. Use this 2 ways: to practice speaking
without stage fright, and to stop an on-stage
panic attack by becoming your Hero and instantly
calm down.
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