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Public Speaking - The Top 3 Reasons
Why
Some people think that just because they can
talk, then that automatically makes them good
at public speaking.
But that makes as much sense as saying that because
you can drive a car that makes you qualified to
be a professional race car driver.
Professional race car drivers have knowledge
you don't have; and professional public speaking
skills trainers have knowledge you don't have.
The good news is, it's actually easier to master
professional-level public speaking skills than
it is to become a professional race car driver-(and
it costs a lot less, too).
Deciding whether public speaking skills training
is a waste of your time and money depends on what
your desired goals and outcomes are.
If you have unlimited time and money then the
question is a moot point. But if you don't, then
you need to be more careful and selective.
The most important question you can answer for
yourself is "ultimately, what results do I want
to get from doing public speaking?"
So, what do you most hope to accomplish by doing
public speaking?
There are 3 common goals people have:
- To get ego strokes and attention.
- To be able to effectively train groups of
people.
- To persuade groups of people with your speaking.
- Ego speaking: If you're looking to
get ego strokes and all you care about is getting
applause and standing ovations, then you're
best off looking for speaking clubs and associations
like the NSA and Toastmasters.
- Speaking to train: If you're a trainer,
you need to be able to impart information -
sometimes complex set of information - in an
understandable and systematic manner. And, you
need to be able to keep a close eye on your
trainees to make sure they're "getting it".
- Speaking to persuade: you might want
to persuade people to join your cause, sign
a petition, or donate to charity. Or you might
be persuading them to make an appointment with
you, or buy what you're selling, do business
with you. In that case you'll need to carefully
evaluate whether the training you're considering
will actually meet that goal.
Summary:
The biggest mistake most people make when setting
out to get public speaking skills training is
incorrectly assuming that joining public speaking
clubs and associations will give then the skills
to get the results they want. You need to be 100%
clear about what results you're hoping to get
via public speaking. With that clarity, then you'll
need to look for professional public speaking
skills trainings that can help you to reach those
specific goals. Ask lots of questions so you can
evaluate which public speaking skills training
will actually be able to deliver the skills and
abilities so you can reach your goals.
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