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Do the traditional
public speaking training techniques to conquer
fear really work?
When it comes to getting rid of fear of public
speaking, there's no shortage of "traditional
advice" usually taught in public speaking training
workshops and classes.
But the question is, does any of that traditional
advice really work?
#1: Realize that "it's okay to be nervous":
This is worth trying, but this only works for
a small percentage of people, usually best for
cerebral types. Give this a try, and see if giving
yourself permission to be nervous makes a difference
for you.
#2: Have burning passion:
Traditional public speaking trainings start with
the question "what are you passionate about?"
Focusing strongly on your passion can cause your
fear of public speaking to evaporate. What's your
burning passion? Can you connect that with doing
public speaking?
#3: Focus on your faith:
If you have strong faith, that can make fear of
public speaking seem trivial, insignificant and
even nonexistent. Strong faith can cause fear
of public speaking to transform into a strong
desire to help others.
#4: Deep breathing:
Deep breathing works but not if you're already
talking. Once you're up there and speaking, deep
breathing isn't going to do you much good since
people expect you to be speaking and not doing
breathing exercises. Do your deep breathing before
you get up to speak.
#5: Knowing that your audience wants you to
succeed:
This works for a certain segment of the population,
usually people who use reason and logic to guide
their behaviors. If you hold the belief steady
in your mind that your audience wants you to be
great, do you find that your nervousness and fear
of public speaking goes away? Give it a try and
if it doesn't work, there are plenty more techniques
you can try.
#6: Turn your nervousness into excitement:
On the surface, this is great advice because often
the only real difference between the bodily sensations
we feel when we experience excitement or fear
of pubic speaking is just the label we put on
it. Change the label from fear to excitement,
and voila! - no more fear. Warning: many public
speaking trainings encourage use of this technique
- just be careful that you don't come across as
too energetic. Being excited is great, just don't
overdo it.
#7: Practice & preparation:
Practicing ahead of time can make a huge reduction
in your fear of public speaking. Practice while
you focus on memories of times when you've been
extremely confident so that you form a solid link
between feeling confident and making a presentation.
Frankly, this is best done in a public speaking
training where you can get expert guidance and
feedback, and build up a solid base of confidence
that will last a lifetime.
Summary:
There are many, many techniques to mitigate or
eliminate fear of public speaking. Don't give
up just because one or two techniques didn't work
for you. The rewards of public speaking are with
the effort! To accelerate & shortcut your
success, get expert public speaking training.
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